Today’s cultural narrative around body positivity tells us to “love yourself just the way you are.” While the idea sounds good on the surface, many young people still find themselves stuck in comparison traps, social media spirals, and striving to meet elusive perfection. For Christian youth and leaders, however, there’s a deeper and more fulfilling way to view our bodies—not rooted in worldly standards, but in the eternal value God has placed on us. Enter the concept of Godly Confidence.
This blog unpacks the difference between body positivity and Godly confidence and explores how you can guide the youth in your community to honor their bodies in ways that glorify Christ.
What is Body Positivity?
Body positivity is a cultural movement that encourages people to accept and love their physical appearance, regardless of shape, size, or imperfections. It’s rooted in rejecting unrealistic beauty standards and advocating for inclusivity.
While the intention of body positivity is commendable, it often places emphasis on affirming appearance alone. For Christians, this can fall short because it misses a critical truth—we are more than our outward selves.
Why Body Positivity Isn’t the Full Answer for Christians
It’s tough to build lasting self-worth by focusing solely on appearances. Human standards can shift like TikTok trends, and what was “in” last year might be “out” tomorrow. On top of that, even the strongest affirmations about our appearance can waver when we face challenges like aging, health struggles, or other insecurities.
Which leads us to Godly confidence.
How Godly Confidence Redefines How We See Ourselves
Godly confidence focuses not on us, but on whose we are. It shifts the source of our confidence from arbitrary societal standards to God’s unchanging truth.
Psalm 139 reminds us, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (verse 14). To the Creator of the universe, our worth has never been about measurements or filters. It’s about being His handiwork, created with purpose.
Instead of obsessing over how we look in the mirror, Godly confidence teaches us to ask, “How can I reflect God’s glory with my body, mind, and heart?”
Key Differences Between Body Positivity and Godly Confidence
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Body Positivity |
Godly Confidence |
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Grounded in affirming outward beauty |
Grounded in understanding your worth in Christ |
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Focuses on self-love |
Focuses on God’s love for you |
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Comes and goes with trends |
Rooted in unchanging Biblical truth |
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Can still lead to comparison |
Leads to peace and purpose beyond comparison |
How to Teach Godly Confidence to the Next Generation
1. Start With Scripture
Dive into passages like Psalm 139 that emphasize God’s intentional creation of each person. Help teens understand that their worth doesn’t come from how Instagram makes them feel, but from God’s perfect design.
Encourage group reflection with questions like:
- “What does it mean to you to be fearfully and wonderfully made?”
- “How does God’s view of you differ from the way society views beauty?”
2. Address the Role of Social Media
Discuss how platforms like TikTok and Instagram create highlight reels of filtered beauty. Spend time unpacking how curated content can distort what’s real.
Ask reflective questions, such as:
- “Have you compared yourself to someone online this week? How did it make you feel?”
- “What would it look like to view yourself the way God sees you?”
3. Frame Our Bodies as Temples
Introduce 1 Corinthians 6, which describes our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit. This means our physical form isn’t just about how it looks but how we use it to glorify God. Use this to expand the conversation beyond appearance to functionality and purpose.
Some starting points:
- “How can you honor God with the way you treat your body?”
- “What good works can you pursue with the strength God has given you?”
4. Encourage Gratitude & Body Stewardship
Help teens shift from dissatisfaction to gratitude. Acknowledge the complexity of body struggles while encouraging mindfulness about how amazing their bodies are.
Practical activities could include:
- Gratitude journaling: Writing down three things they’re thankful for about their bodies each day.
- Serving others: Using their physical abilities to help someone in need, reinforcing that their body isn’t just about how it looks.
5. Model Vulnerability as Leaders
Share personal stories about your own ups and downs with body image. When teens hear leaders discuss their struggles honestly, it creates a safe space for them to open up and reflect.
For example, you could say:
- “I used to look in the mirror and hate what I saw, but reading Psalm 139 reminded me that my Creator makes no mistakes. Understanding what God sees in me completely changed the way I see myself.”
6. Anchor Everything in the Gospel
Ultimately, Godly confidence points back to Jesus. The perfect Son of God willingly took on a human body, lived a humble life, and used His physical form to serve others before offering it as a sacrifice on the cross. This helps drive home that our bodies are not the centerpiece of our identity, but vessels to glorify God and bless others.
Remind youth that Jesus came for all of us—not based on how pretty, fit, or trendy we were, but because of His immeasurable love. That’s enough to shape the healthiest sense of self-worth possible.
7. Create Community Around This Conversation
Build a support system to foster accountability and encouragement. Whether through weekly Bible studies, small groups, or prayer partners, give youth a space to grow in Godly confidence together.
Loving Your Body, Loving Your Creator
Learning to love your body through a Christ-centered lens isn’t about ignoring the world’s standards altogether, but rather replacing them with something infinitely better. Godly confidence gives us the freedom to step off the seesaw of societal approval and rest in the truth that our Creator made us intentionally, uniquely, and for a beautiful purpose.
For youth leaders, this is your opportunity to guide the next generation to find lasting peace and confidence—not by liking what they see in the mirror but by falling in love with their reflection as seen through God’s eyes.
Need Help Leading These Conversations?
If you’re unsure where to begin, our “You vs. You” teaching series dives deeper into equipping young people to value their God-given bodies. Check it out here and learn how to encourage your students to live with purpose, confidence, and faith.